There are many methods on how to get girls to note you. You can peacock (where you have a funny hat or something that catches attention). You can be witty and funny. You can do a magician's trick that blows her socks off. There are numerous paths to initially collect a girl's attention. But let's take a quick look at techniques to get her to note you and wish to spend more time with you after that primary interaction:
How It's Possible To Get Girls To Notice You Tips:
1. Keep her interest high by waiting from 3 to seven days before you call her after you first meet. I suspect calling her the same day or even the next day is too soon. It makes you appear desperate. When you do call, give her a particular time to meet up. Let her know you would like to schedule her into your week before it fills up. Believe me, this can pique her interest and make her sit up straight and take note. She'll notice that you aren't the sort of fellow who is desperate for her attention.
2. When you do call that first time, confirm if she doesn't answer, you only leave one message. If she doesn't pick up that first time or does not return your message straight away, wait a couple of days and call again.
If she has not called back then you need to leave this message: "Hi Kelly, it's Mark. I met you at Darren's house the other day. It looks you are screening your calls or being tough to get. I believe that's lovable. I thought I'd call you one more time. Let's get together for coffee so I'll see if you are as fascinating as I believe you could be. Call me."
Then the ball is in her court. If she doesn't call back after that, move on because she is not interested.
3. When you do talk (either she answers your first call or calls you back), the key is to let her talk for so long as she should. Listen for red flags. Then, when she's done chatting, get to the point: arrange a meeting and then get off the telephone.
Speaking on the phone does not make a girl interested in you. Your goal during any phone conversation is this and this only: to order a meeting in real life. Period.
To ask her out, you might say: "Hey, I'm checking out this art festival Saturday afternoon. Thought you could like it to. I am able to meet you at the cafe at 2 and we can walk over or I can swing by your place first."
You are being firm and telling her you're going with or without her.
4. Make sure when you do make plans that your next get together is something you would already be doing, also , that you just seemed to ask her along for company. So maybe you were planning on taking a hike or going to the gym or checking out a new museum, then invite her along. Make it something that you would do anyway. You are showing you've already got an engaging life and that you have no need for her around to have a good time. But you are asking her along for the company.
5. Always Be Busy. I call this one of my golden laws of attraction. This is especially useful the first time you meet. Bring her into your world; invite her to something that you are already doing. For instance, have her meet you at the coffee bar where you would already be studying. Don't sit down on the edge of your chair eagerly watching who comes in the front door, waiting for her arrival. Instead , be busy on your computer, chat to a mate on your phone, or have your head deep in a fascinating book. (This is fodder for conversation later). Show you are busy when she arrives. (Of course, when she goes up to you, immediately stop what you're actually doing to give her attention so you aren't being rude.).
How It's Possible To Get Girls To Notice You Tips:
1. Keep her interest high by waiting from 3 to seven days before you call her after you first meet. I suspect calling her the same day or even the next day is too soon. It makes you appear desperate. When you do call, give her a particular time to meet up. Let her know you would like to schedule her into your week before it fills up. Believe me, this can pique her interest and make her sit up straight and take note. She'll notice that you aren't the sort of fellow who is desperate for her attention.
2. When you do call that first time, confirm if she doesn't answer, you only leave one message. If she doesn't pick up that first time or does not return your message straight away, wait a couple of days and call again.
If she has not called back then you need to leave this message: "Hi Kelly, it's Mark. I met you at Darren's house the other day. It looks you are screening your calls or being tough to get. I believe that's lovable. I thought I'd call you one more time. Let's get together for coffee so I'll see if you are as fascinating as I believe you could be. Call me."
Then the ball is in her court. If she doesn't call back after that, move on because she is not interested.
3. When you do talk (either she answers your first call or calls you back), the key is to let her talk for so long as she should. Listen for red flags. Then, when she's done chatting, get to the point: arrange a meeting and then get off the telephone.
Speaking on the phone does not make a girl interested in you. Your goal during any phone conversation is this and this only: to order a meeting in real life. Period.
To ask her out, you might say: "Hey, I'm checking out this art festival Saturday afternoon. Thought you could like it to. I am able to meet you at the cafe at 2 and we can walk over or I can swing by your place first."
You are being firm and telling her you're going with or without her.
4. Make sure when you do make plans that your next get together is something you would already be doing, also , that you just seemed to ask her along for company. So maybe you were planning on taking a hike or going to the gym or checking out a new museum, then invite her along. Make it something that you would do anyway. You are showing you've already got an engaging life and that you have no need for her around to have a good time. But you are asking her along for the company.
5. Always Be Busy. I call this one of my golden laws of attraction. This is especially useful the first time you meet. Bring her into your world; invite her to something that you are already doing. For instance, have her meet you at the coffee bar where you would already be studying. Don't sit down on the edge of your chair eagerly watching who comes in the front door, waiting for her arrival. Instead , be busy on your computer, chat to a mate on your phone, or have your head deep in a fascinating book. (This is fodder for conversation later). Show you are busy when she arrives. (Of course, when she goes up to you, immediately stop what you're actually doing to give her attention so you aren't being rude.).
About the Author:
In this article, Carlos Xuma's How It's Possible To Get Girls To Notice You, he will give you the 5 pointers to get her to notice you and wish to spend some more time with you. There are plenty of strategies about it but these tips will surely help you on how to get girls to notice you.
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