Saturday, 16 November 2013

Follow Your Heart To Get Your Ex Back

By Jeff Heller


Making the decision to get your ex back can be a complicated one. Family and friends might want to advise you to move on and find someone new. Counselors might even give you the same advise. Of course, your heart is telling you to do something completely different.

You are sure that you are still in love with your ex boyfriend. You want him back in your life every day. You want to talk to him when good things happen in your life and when bad things happen but do you truly love him?

You need to be sure of yourself again before you move forward with your plan to win her over or your body language and tone of voice is going to give away your doubts and turn her off. Having self-confidence and being self-assured is a big part of attracting your girlfriend back. But what can you do to eliminate the doubts and fears? What can you do when you become jealous or feel like quitting?

Realizing how doubtful you are is the first step towards taking care of this problem. Realizing that you have bad thoughts inside your head and that even though you want to be positive and optimistic about everything, you still have doubts in your mind is a good first step. Instead, remember the fact that your ex was in love with you not too long ago. These feelings and emotions don't just go away. Deep down inside there is a piece of her heart that still beats for you. She might not be in love with how things were going in your relationship but she loved you and she does still love you.

Keep your dream of winning your ex back to yourself. Know in your heart that it is possible to reunite with the one you love. Your ex loved you once so it's wouldn't be unusual for you to get back together. Couples get back together after some of the most horrible circumstances so no matter how horrible things might have been for you and your ex you probably know of some other couple who had it worse.

Try this trick for a week or so. Any time you feel yourself getting upset because your boyfriend isn't with you, close your eyes and remember a pleasant memory from when you were together. Spend some time each night before you go to be just loving him. Love him without reservation and without demands. Think about the things you love about him and open your heart to him. These emotions will find their way to him and it is thought that he will feel that love and respond to it.

Spend a little time every day daydreaming about what it's going to be like to get her back. Think about how it's going to feel to have her back in your life. How do you want it to happen? Will she start calling you or texting you and eventually she will start being around you more often or will it all happen in an instant? Will she just show up at your door and want to get back together? It's all up to you. It's your dream and those thoughts will help you get through the tough moments and enable you to gain the confidence that you need to win your girlfriend back.




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