Tuesday 24 September 2013

Parents Must Have A Grasp Of Etiquette For Children

By Marla Mills


These days it is interesting to note all the different cultures within one area. People from all over the world live in many different areas and often one will find that in one area there are a few different ones in a particular placed. This is great and it makes for some interesting observation. Something that is important to note is the different etiquette for children these cultures exhibit.

Kids are like little sponges, they absorb everything they see and learn. One is easily able to see how the parents behave by simply observing the child. Kids learn from their parents and the other people in their homes. Youngsters without manners and who misbehave are only exhibiting what they see at home.

Sometimes to the parent's dismay kids tend to be on their worst behavior just when you least expect it. The thing to do is to reprimand them as best you can. This is highly embarrassing for the parent as it gives a poor impression of the way they are raising the child.

Should it be the case where the child is in fact poorly raised, he will know no better and not understand why he is in trouble. The idea when having children is to be proud of them and to be able to take them anywhere. If you do not teach him properly he will never learn and will always embarrass you with his poor manners and misbehavior.

When raising a child, you want other people to like him. It is not pleasant if other people do not like your child because he is ill mannered and impolite. People tend to avoid others who behave poorly and if your child is not nice to have around, other people will avoid your company if the child is with you.

The thing about misbehaved kids is that they are shunned by society. No one likes a misbehaved child. Other kids and adults alike will avoid a child who is behaving in an unacceptable manner. This is really quite sad as he is only doing as he has been taught. The blame lies completely with the parents. This type of thing is purely a situation of bad parenting.

Discipline plays an important role in a child's life. One need not punish a child when teaching him manners as then he will grow to fear you which is not something anyone wants from their child. A gentle approach for young children goes a far further way than strict harsh disciplining. You as the parent need to be wise as to the nature of your child and teach him in such a way that you will be proud to take him anywhere.

Etiquette for children is very important as one wants other folk to enjoy his company as much as you do. A well behaved child is a pleasure to have around and everyone will react well toward him if he has good manners and knows his place in company. This is great and people will want to have you around them. Everyone wants to be proud of their children and the better you teach him, the more people will be accepting of you and your child. Acceptance is an important part of life.




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