Everyone offers guys dating advice, but a guy who wants a girl to say yes when he offers an engagement ring really needs to think about becoming a better person. Maybe good people don't always win, but they usually do.
Guys: When you're out there in the dating world, it will appear that everyone has suggestions for you, does it not? But hardly any of it really is practical or helpful. Most people are advising you things you already know, but it's the things you don't know that you need some education about.
Here are 5 recommended suggestions that someone should have given you before decide to start making a fool of yourself in the dating world:
1. Think like a lady when grooming. That does not suggest you need to flat-iron your hair or wax in areas you have never touched, but you should basically consider which parts of your body your date will have accessibility to and ensure those parts are performance-ready. That implies you want to completely clean, groom and otherwise spruce yourself up â€" remembering that the lady you meet may have much higher standards than you do.
2. Be courteous though not chivalrous. Lots of ladies can get offended when you open the car door for them or hold a door because they suspect you are not feminist-aware. They won't mind , however , if the noble move is in character for you. Hold the door for the individual behind you each time and let someone go in front of you in line. Say hello to people you pass on the street, and pick up things for people who drop them. In other words, learn how to be a pleasing guy.
3. Tell your fiance how beautiful she is but do not make comparisons. Don't let her know she's more attractive than your last girlfriend or your mom. And very definitely do not tell her she's nearly as attractive as the girl you almost picked up in that bar that night. Don't compare her positively or negatively to motion picture stars, Reality TV princesses or foreign heads of state. Just let her know she's beautiful and hope that she thinks she's the only girl you ever think about.
4. Always overdress for the occasion. Women pefer to dress up more often than men, so put on a coat or jacket even if you're wearing your flannel shirt. You will look more dressed up that way, and you'll be ready if you go on to a club with a dress code. You'd better neatly fold a tie and put it in your pocket too â€" incase you run off secretly or go to a fancy bistro.
5. Show righteous indignation but not anger. If a person says something offensive to your date, speak up and protect her, but don't get in a fight. Simply make it obvious that she is important to you. Should you throw a punch, a picture of an afternoon movie-of-the-week repeat will flash through her head, and she'll picture the punch landing on her face rather than some jerk's. Shortly, she will be calling the police if you swat at a bee.
This list of could go on for pages, but you get it, don't you? Treat the woman in your life with respect â€" the same kind of respect with which you treat other men, your relatives, the assistant at the local store and everybody you meet every day.
Ladies pefer guys who treat the world as if they like it rather than have disregard for it. And a woman who likes this type of person, she will be more likely to answer yes when you offer her an engagement ring â€" and a new life with you.
To clarify, be a genuine human. The world needs more of those.
Guys: When you're out there in the dating world, it will appear that everyone has suggestions for you, does it not? But hardly any of it really is practical or helpful. Most people are advising you things you already know, but it's the things you don't know that you need some education about.
Here are 5 recommended suggestions that someone should have given you before decide to start making a fool of yourself in the dating world:
1. Think like a lady when grooming. That does not suggest you need to flat-iron your hair or wax in areas you have never touched, but you should basically consider which parts of your body your date will have accessibility to and ensure those parts are performance-ready. That implies you want to completely clean, groom and otherwise spruce yourself up â€" remembering that the lady you meet may have much higher standards than you do.
2. Be courteous though not chivalrous. Lots of ladies can get offended when you open the car door for them or hold a door because they suspect you are not feminist-aware. They won't mind , however , if the noble move is in character for you. Hold the door for the individual behind you each time and let someone go in front of you in line. Say hello to people you pass on the street, and pick up things for people who drop them. In other words, learn how to be a pleasing guy.
3. Tell your fiance how beautiful she is but do not make comparisons. Don't let her know she's more attractive than your last girlfriend or your mom. And very definitely do not tell her she's nearly as attractive as the girl you almost picked up in that bar that night. Don't compare her positively or negatively to motion picture stars, Reality TV princesses or foreign heads of state. Just let her know she's beautiful and hope that she thinks she's the only girl you ever think about.
4. Always overdress for the occasion. Women pefer to dress up more often than men, so put on a coat or jacket even if you're wearing your flannel shirt. You will look more dressed up that way, and you'll be ready if you go on to a club with a dress code. You'd better neatly fold a tie and put it in your pocket too â€" incase you run off secretly or go to a fancy bistro.
5. Show righteous indignation but not anger. If a person says something offensive to your date, speak up and protect her, but don't get in a fight. Simply make it obvious that she is important to you. Should you throw a punch, a picture of an afternoon movie-of-the-week repeat will flash through her head, and she'll picture the punch landing on her face rather than some jerk's. Shortly, she will be calling the police if you swat at a bee.
This list of could go on for pages, but you get it, don't you? Treat the woman in your life with respect â€" the same kind of respect with which you treat other men, your relatives, the assistant at the local store and everybody you meet every day.
Ladies pefer guys who treat the world as if they like it rather than have disregard for it. And a woman who likes this type of person, she will be more likely to answer yes when you offer her an engagement ring â€" and a new life with you.
To clarify, be a genuine human. The world needs more of those.
About the Author:
Petra Bierberg is owner of a jewellery design company in Cape Town and writes about custom jewellery as she understands how much joy valuable stones and marvellously made metals can bring to a family. If care is taken in the designing process, a piece can last a lifetime - or longer.
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