Monday 12 September 2011

How to Tell If a Guy Is Cheating

By Alex Haight


When you think your spouse is cheating, it can be tricky to concentrate on anything more. Your brain is consumed with all those what-if thoughts and you're feeling so disturbed and shaken inside. Part of you wants to find the truth, but another part is afraid of what you might find.

You know that living a lie isn't worthwhile in the long run though, so you're determined to work out what's truly going on here. So here are a few bits of love advice and things to keep an eye out for to find out if your husband is cheating.

First, check his car. Especially, check the passenger seat. Do you notice any unusual women's hairs? Or do you spot any kind of perfume? These are big clues that he's cheating on you. Most guys will cover the obvious things when hiding the evidence, but based primarily on what quantity of folks drive around cars littered with fast food wrappers, don't be surprised if he forgets to scrub the evidence out of his vehicle.

Next, if he says he's working late, but you get the impression that he's not actually working late, go on and trap him. It's no surprise that cheating men have used the excuse of working late to take part in some "out of class activities." To find out what he's really up to, you want to catch him. Drop by his work unannounced, solely to surprise him with dinner on a day that he works late. If his colleagues say he left at 5:00 or don't have an idea where he is at, then you know something else is happening.

Last, plan a trip out of town for yourself. You don't really have to go anywhere yourself, just make him think you are. This is where you set your trap. If he believes you are going to be away, then there's a fair chance he'd use this as a chance to meet up with the other woman.

To catch him, all that you need to do is hide a voice-activated audio recorder in the house. This could record any sound that he makes or any sound that anyone he brings home will make. This will also pick up on phone chats too , which is an added bonus.

For good measure, also hide a recoding device in his car too. In case he does not bring the other lady home, you can capture audio of their talks as they drive around on their dates. This additional trick can catch a large amount of guys out there who believe they are being smart by not bringing the other woman home with them.

Hence these are a few tips that you can use to catch a cheating partner. I know that it can be really devastating to cope with cheating in your marriage, but in the long run, you will be far better off knowing the truth than to simply sit by idly and look the other way. So be brave and get to the root of what your husband is doing.




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