Thursday 10 November 2011

You Want to Get Her?

By Rocky Kisinger


It's hard to tell if someone you are sexually attracted to shares the attraction. Many people in the United States are, or claim to be, sexually active before they reach their 21st birthday.

If you are out with a woman you are attracted to, how can you tell if she shares your attraction? Body language is a good indicator. If she avoids touching you and leans away when you try to get close, you probably won't have sex tonight. If she leans closer and finds reasons to touch you, you may get lucky.

Woman are often afraid to take the direct approach when it comes to sex. They believe that being direct about their physical needs will make men think they are promiscuous. The need to communicate more subtly.

Some of the indicators of sexual interest are detailed here. Be careful though, sexual interest may not end in intercourse and proceeding too quickly can get you in trouble.

Keep your eyes out for constant lip biting. This is usually done by women who want to show their succulent and supple lips. Not only do they attract guys by it, but it also helps in keeping their lips moist and plump, making any guy want to kiss those super kissable lips.

Don't confuse nervous habits with sexual signals. If she's gnawing on her lips or on her fingernail, it is most likely a nervous response.

Unless you are on the dance floor, there really isn't a reason for a woman to rub her legs against yours unless she is sending a sexual signal. This is a clear sign of carnal interest.

If a woman rubs your leg with her hand, she is aware of the sexual arousal this causes for you. If she is engaging in behavior designed to arouse you, the chances are goo that she wants to have sex with you and probably very soon.

When women engage in flirting or conversation that is full of sexual innuendo, they are aware that men find such conversation stimulating. This is another way in which women create a sexual atmosphere and indicate their willingness to have sex.

If you introduce topics or sexual innuendo into the conversation and she doesn't take the bait, you may not have the fun you were hoping for tonight. If she shies away from sexual conversation, she may not be ready to get physical.

The signals are just ways to tell if a potential sexual partner is interested in you. They are not foolproof ways of gauging how interested. Proceed slowly and if at anytime she asks you to stop, stop.

When you are getting mixed signals from a lady, it may indicate that she's interested , but not ready to go all the way yet.




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